Day-Of
The Envelope
My envelope can be placed tableside upon meeting.
Should you feel inclined to tip me, I would beam with adoration!
Extensions
Are we getting along famously? If we’re approaching the end of our scheduled time together, please bring it up. My extension rate begins at 1000 and cash is always my preference.
Hygiene & Health
I find the words “I’m about to freshen up” the most endearing. My suitors take care of themselves most charmingly for me.
For those who like a bit of direction, may I suggest showering at the beginning of our date or shortly prior to our meeting. Small courteous measures like brushing your teeth, using mouthwash, wearing deodorant, and washing your hands regularly is what makes a gentleman just that.
Please reschedule with me if you are feeling sick as our date approaches.
I do not engage in activities that put my health at risk. Please do not ask for things that will make me uncomfortable.
Overnights
I generally find separate rooms to be a comfortable option.
If sharing the room…
Wake me up with a gentle morning forehead kiss and a mug of coffee (w/ a large dash of milk!). Watch me endearingly mumble and bumble with tousled hair as my body perks up to my daily dose of caffeine. Catch up on emails while I freshen up, and our plans for the day will dictate the rest. Please note, I absolutely perish, wither, and die without my morning coffee. Some breakfast foods I enjoy are oatmeal, fruit, and yogurt. European-esque slow-living and well-planned spreads are rituals I cherish:)
Please allow for an uninterrupted night of sleep. I am generally in bed by midnight – Cinderella style – and up by 8:30 in the morning.
Communication
The best way to reach me is via a brief, professional email. Maintaining boundaries is an essential element in sustaining the nature of our relationship. I do everything on my end to respect privacy and discretion needs, and in return I ask that your emails to me are kept brief & professional.
For suitors with whom I have a very well-established rapport with, the occasional friendly email is welcome, though small gestures go a long way in showing good faith. I reserve texting for day-of communication only, and otherwise do not respond. As I have a fulfilling and busy life outside of the demimonde and am often on extended & travel dates, multiple emails can make me feel overwhelmed and unlikely to reply in the manner you desire. Gentle nudges are welcome for time-sensitive matters.
Q's and A's
Disabilities
…shouldn’t get in the way of fun! Please let me know ahead of time and I am happy to accommodate.
My Ethnicity
For discretion reasons, I do not publicly list my ethnicity. However, you are welcome to politely ask me about my culture during our date together.
Arriving Early
Errrrm, please don’t!
Screening
I only meet with whom I can confirm is a safe, professional person.
Please know that everything sent to my email is for my eyes only—my reputation is my livelihood and I highly prize discretion (for both myself and for you).
My Links
Twitter – @leyla_amar
Instagram – @leyla_amar_
OnlyFans – https://onlyfans.com/leyla_amar
Consolidated links of everything I directly access: https://allmylinks.com/leylaamar
Peek through my essence in my slice of life blog.
Website Design
When I first launched my brand, I hired Erin Black from Black Ash Consulting to design my site! I highly recommend her. I’ve since learned the basics of website editing (what a learning curve!) & have overhauled my website to feel as a true extension of myself. I retain sole access and my site is hosted in the safe haven of Northern Europe.
Summer 2023 edit – rest assured that my website and ad copy have always and will continue to only be written by me. I believe strongly in creating the boundaries between human-written vs. AI-generated content.
Outfit Request
Realllly casual – jeans and loafers
My go-to – tasteful dress or whatever mini skirt I’m in the mood for that day!
Business casual – blazer w/ just a long-enough skirt
Dressed up – venue appropriate outfit with the heels + purse to match
Friends List
For when I can’t be summoned by your side… a rather informal and non-exhaustive list of a few friends I’ve personally met in the industry and I vibe with (so, you probably will too!)
Chelsea Harper – FMTY
Jessica Savoy – FMTY
Emma Graff – NYC
Alice Arden – NYC
Cayce Marlowe – NYC
Natalia Belova – NYC
Serena Sahir – NYC
Émile James – Chicago
Mia L’Amour – Chicago
Rose Auclair – Chicago
Lyla Malone – Chicago
Camille Raye – Boston
Khloe Valentina – Miami
Nia Bolde – DC
Gabi Ashton – Orange County
Anabelle Scott – Los Angeles
Eva Loren – San Francisco
Harper Williams – Dallas
Lille Milk – Toronto
Sephra Grace – London
Q's and A's
Payment in Bitcoin
Bitcoin is an excellent way to send funds anonymously, quickly, and discretely. Oh, and in large amounts…
- –1– Set up a bitcoin wallet. I suggest using Coinbase. Verification of your information (ID, bank account info) may incur a waiting period. Think of a bitcoin ‘wallet’ like a bank account or a PayPal account.
- –2– Deposit funds into your account (transfer USD from bank into BTC in wallet). Please note that there are small transaction fees associated with depositing USD and with withdrawing and sending bitcoin (BTC). There may also be a daily deposit limit. Please also be aware that Bitcoin is not yet a very stable form of currency (but worthwhile enough that many providers use it), so there may be slight fluctuations in the value of bitcoin from minute to minute and day to day.
- –3– Once the bitcoin is in your account, confirmed, and ready to send, you can send it to me. I have a unique wallet address that is a series of letters and numbers that you will copy/paste into your screen when you click “send bitcoin”. You *must* copy and paste my wallet address or use the QR code I send. Ask me for my wallet address whenever you are ready – I will give a fresh address.
Outfit Requests
Within reason. If you have something specific in mind, please be prepared to send payment accompanying your request so I can best fulfill your vision!
My Ethnicity
For discretion reasons, I do not publicly list my ethnicity. However, you’re welcome to politely ask me about my culture during our date together!
Website Design
When I first launched my brand in February 2021, I hired Erin Black from Black Ash Consulting to design my site! She helped me immensely, and I highly recommend her. I’ve since learned the basics of website-building and -editing (what a learning curve!) to tweak my website to feel as a true extension of myself. If my website loads a bit slower than expected, it is because of my extremely secure web hosting based in Europe. Safety and privacy is paramoiunt 🙂
My Links
Twitter – @leyla_amar
Instagram – @leyla_amar_
Consolidated links of everything I directly access: https://allmylinks.com/leylaamar
No OnlyFans at this time but I am quite fond of creating exclusive photoshoot looks!
Friends List
For when I can’t be summoned by your side… a rather informal list of a few friends I’ve personally met in the industry and I vibe with (so, you probably will too!) 
Chelsea Harper – NYC + DC
Lara Breccia – NYC + Miami
Stella Luna – NYC
Emma Graff – NYC
Cayce Marlowe – NYC
Émile James – Chicago
Mia L’Amour – Chicago
Madeleine Blair – Charlotte
Camille Raye – Boston
Lille Milk – Toronto
Disabilities
Of course! I am disability-friendly and will do the best that I can to accommodate any accessibility needs (please let me know ahead of time).
Arriving Early
Errrrm, please don’t!
Screening
It’s quite reasonable to be apprehensive about giving your personal information to someone you haven’t met yet. I sympathize. I also haven’t met you yet and need a way to verify that you are who you say you are and your internet presence confirms that you are a safe, professional person.
It puts me at great ease to know a little bit about you prior to meeting. I would hope you understand that helping your companion feel comfortable is wonderful etiquette and a great introduction to show who you are as a person!
Please know that everything sent to my email is for my eyes only—my reputation is my livelihood and I highly prize discretion (on both ends).
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Leyla Amar is a luxury companion and high-end Washington D.C. escort.